Meet Alyson Novick, Director of Development at the Dr. Martin Luther King Community Center.

August 21, 2021

Meet Alyson Novick, Director of Development at the Dr. Martin Luther King Community Center.

Alyson Novick, Director of Development at Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Center.

Most people living on Aquidneck Island know about the Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Community Center, or at least in part. After all, next year will mark its 100 year anniversary. Alyson Novick is the director of development of the organization, which is located on Broadway in Newport, Rhode Island, but serves as far away as Tiverton and Jamestown.

Novick is a true Aquidneck Islander. No one could dare call her a “carpet bagger” as people who are not from the island are so “lovingly” called.

“That is part of why I work here, because this community matters so much to me,” Novick says. “These people are my neighbors, my family, my friends.” She continued.

This will be her 11th year working at MLK. An organization that she joined at a point when there were doubts that it could continue financially.

Novick says that for many Newport isn’t an easy place to live. Despite all the glitz and glamor that is presented to the world, there is a whole other reality to life on Aquidneck Island. “Life for many people here is very hard. It doesn’t need to be that hard.” She says.

Novick says that she often asks people “What is the first thing you think about when you think about Newport?” They will often talk about arts, culture, beauty and mansions. She will then ask them “When you drive into Newport and look to the left, what do you see?”

The divide between rich and poor is real on the island and Novick worries about that gap on a daily basis, especially as it continues to widen. And COVID-19 only made it worse for many.

Novick says that bad stuff happening in our lives is inevitable, that’s why places like the MLK Center and Memorial Funeral Home exist. For people that seek out the help of the MLK Center, it is because they don’t have the family and financial resources needed to get through those bad times.

“There just isn’t a support system in many people’s lives,” she says. But none of this is possible without the support of those who have the means to contribute, whether volunteering (there are 700+ volunteers currently) or providing funding to the food, community and education programs that MLK offers. The non-profit receives relatively little funding on a municipal level, so it is quite literally a community effort to keep everything going. “We need people to support us,” she says.

And a lot of people did step up and help when the pandemic started. MLK stayed open throughout and was able to work with McGrath Clambakes , who, thanks to a PPP loan, were able to keep on staff who made food that MLK distributed to people in need.

When the food pantry couldn’t be open due to the pandemic, people could write down what they needed and the MLK volunteers would organize bags and deliver goods to nursing homes and houses, often to places hardest hit by COVID-19.

In 2020, the MLK Center served nearly 5,000 people, made over 1000 food deliveries, served nearly 11,000 breakfasts and provided more education scholarships than ever before.

MLK’s community programs provided cooking and wellness classes, distributed books from Dolly Parton’s Imagination Library program and 820 children received gifts through the nonprofit’s Santa’s Workshop event.

Novick says Memorial Funeral Home’s relationship with MLK, “predates our database, so before 2007.” For years now, Kurt Edenbach, co-owner of Memorial Funeral Home, has dressed up like Buddy from the movie “Elf” at the annual Jane Pickens showing of the movie. The event raises awareness for MLK, as well as brings in much needed food and money donations during the holiday time.

Unfortunately, due to the pandemic, the event was cancelled in 2020, but it is back on the books for this year and we know that Edenbach could not be more excited to reprise his role as Buddy. This year, the event will take place at Jane Pickens Film + Event Center on Washington Square in Newport on December 12th at 1:30pm.

Kurt Edenbach as Buddy the Elf at Jane Pickens Theater on Washington Square, Newport RI.

“These connections are important,” say Novick. “We need that” She continued.

Novick says that the inter-connectedness of the Aquidneck Island community is what keeps it all going. In this case, the “island mentality” helps create a close community where people help each other.

Despite the issues facing the island, such as the lack of affordable housing, the ever-widening gap between rich and poor and climate change, Novick continues to have faith in the community and their ability to help, after all, if it wasn’t for the generosity of each and every individual, there would be no Dr. Martin Luther King Community Center.

Like she says, “people want to help, MLK will be the place that will help and that we will never stop.”

If you are interested in donating to MLK or volunteering, please go to www.mlkccenter.org.

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Political scientist Dr. Robert D. Putnam speaks about the state of American democracy

By Pearl Marvell • April 18, 2025

On April 15th political scientist and author, Dr. Robert D. Putnam gave a lecture at Salve Regina University called What is the State of American Democracy Today?, which was cosponsored by RENewport , a community collaborative based in Newport. Dr. Putnam is known for his work on how civic engagement in society is a bellwether for the state of democracy. One of his best-known works is Bowling Alone in America: The Collapse and Revival of American Community , which addresses the cultural consequences of dramatically declining rates of participation in America’s civic associations, from religious communities to recreational clubs. The talk was kicked off by an introduction from former U.S. Representative for Rhode Island, David Cicilline who is now the president and chief executive officer of the Rhode Island Foundation. The day prior to the talk, a screening of a documentary about Dr. Putnam’s work called Join or Die was screened at the Jane Pickens Theater. The political scientist began the talk by discussing the current state of our political system and democracy. “I’ve tried very hard in my work to be bipartisan,” he said, mentioning that he has worked with “all three Bush’s” during his career as a political scientist. However, what he did assert is that America today has reached historic levels of political polarization, economic inequality, social isolation and cultural self-centeredness, which is reflected in our current political situation. He explained that the wealth gap that exists now is bigger than it was even in the Gilded Age. The only time similar to what we are going through now was at the turn of the 20th century. What happened after this period was the establishment of social security, the Boys Scouts of America and other civic safety nets. Dr. Putnam explained that the ‘60s were considered a time when Americans were most equal in economic terms, although he was quick to point out the lack of equality for women and people of color. Now, “we are a class-divided society,” he said, not just in economic terms, but in recognition. “We don’t think the person pumping gas is the same as us.” He said. Dr. Putnam suggested that the next time the audience members go to a supermarket checkout or have their gas pumped for them, that they ask themselves, “do I think of that person as an equal?” According to Dr. Putnam, we as a society were able to fix similar problems before, so we should be able to fix the problems we face now. What we need is to engage our youth more to lead these movements, much like what Greta Thunberg has done with climate change, as well as ensure that it is grassroots led. It needs to be bottom-up, not top down. “We should be getting to work locally,” he said. The political scientist also talked about social media’s role in this lack of “social capital” as he calls civic engagement. Studies have shown that social media platforms like X and Facebook are designed to favor outrage and anger over other types of messaging, as well as foster in people feeling of increased isolation and loneliness. Face-to-fact engagement just cannot be replaced by a virtual reality. According to Dr. Putnam, what we need is a renewed sense of moral obligation to fix our society. “It won’t get fixed this time unless you and your children and students take up this moral calling,” he said as he addressed the full auditorium. “I think for sure there is the desire to fix the problem,” he continued. Dr. Putnam concluded the talk saying that he was hopeful for the future and paraphrased the late English Rabbi Lord Jonathan Sacks that optimism is a passive virtue, but hope is an active one. Hopefully we can all be more hopeful!

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Review of A Heart That Works by Rob Delaney

By Kim Shute • March 30, 2025

I am a fan of stand-up comedy and one comedian I enjoy is Rob Delaney. He is not for the faint of heart as he pushes many envelopes and is quite gritty. A few years back he disappeared from stand-up which caused me to search for him. He was working on a show in London, and I learned that he and his wife, Leah, had lived through the unbearable loss of their two-year-old son Henry to brain cancer in 2018. They experienced the insufferable death of their precious sweet bundle of joy, and the cruel reality that we are not in charge of what happens to us and those we love. After the death of my husband (almost 10 years ago) I found reading about loss experiences of others to be a comfort. It may seem odd or like I was seeking out more pain and suffering, but really what I was searching for was company, I was tired of feeling alone in my grief. Books like Delaney’s make me feel less isolated. Delaney wrote about the experience in A Heart That Works in 2022. Should you choose this book, buckle up as it is not easy on the eyes or ears and yet I can imagine for some it might bring inexplicable comfort for those who have experienced a loss like his. He gives voice to a painful and true-life event that happens to families across the globe that are often relegated to pediatric hospitals, hospices facilities, and private homes. I appreciate and applaud his bravery for letting us into his tender, vulnerable, and intimate life. Delaney has definite opinions about the world in which we live, especially around healthcare in the US and he makes no bones about it in his real-life comparison to the free public healthcare accessible to all residents in the UK, where his family lives. He swears a lot and if that bothers you, I recommend you pass on this short work of art and testament to his love for family and especially for his late son Henry. Some of the descriptions are hard to witness about the medical aspects of Henry’s illness, treatment, and death. Delaney’s candor is both arresting and refreshing, he does not mince words or worry about you as a reader. He paints a realistic picture of the devastating and overwhelming experiences of hospital life with a toddler struggling through brain cancer and tempers it with effortless gratitude and grace. Delaney, originally from New England, is now in his late ‘40s and has struggled with depression and alcoholism in his life. In this book, he is able to shine a light for us on lessons that surface about life and death. His humanity is raw and unedited, and he shares it with those of us who decide to witness it. If you take a risk listening to or reading his memoir let us know what you think.

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We have decided to add a book review section to our newsletter upon occasion that relates to themes around death, dying, and bereavement. I did not quite realize exactly how many books are related to these topics. I thought I would have to search harder, but the books keep falling across my path. Recently, I was playing Wingspan online with a friend who lives in Washington State, and she mentioned the book she was currently reading. She and I often enjoy the same books, so I knew I had to reserve Maybe You Should Talk to Somone by Lori Gottlieb through the Libby library app. This book is considered a genre I have never seen before: Memoir/Self-Help. I wholeheartedly agree with this label. I felt entertained, deeply moved, and self-reflective. I was never bored, and it was challenging to motivate myself to do things other than read this 835-page tome. Since I read the last page, I miss the author’s voice and the clients she so thoroughly captures on the pages. Gottlieb toggles back and forth throughout the book between her own individual therapy after an unexpected break-up (loss again!), as well as the clients she sees in her private practice. It is such a pleasure to see all the people depicted change and grow even when those changes are tiny. We follow the story of a young cancer patient and all the loss that follows such a journey. We are stunned to see the death of a child in a car accident and the grief of the surviving parents. We see people who are emotionally inaccessible become less armored and why they put on defenses in the first place. We see people who have lived long lives riddled with mistakes and the hurt that is sometimes born from them. We see people grow up and take responsibility for their own actions or inaction. We see people own their emotional baggage and turn their lives around. Ultimately this is a book about finding meaning in all our moments no matter how close we are to our own mortality. Many people wonder how we who work in funeral service can do what we do each day; they wonder if it is too depressing. For me it is often sad and reminds me how important it is to choose life and to live each moment as we don’t know how long we get. Working with death and the bereaved helps me to remember how critical it is to make positive use of my time on earth. I am working towards being less afraid that my life is likely more than half over. This work has me thinking about my bucket list, what is on yours? Following the next funeral, memorial, or celebration of life you attend I invite you to really reflect on how you are living your one precious life, right now. Thanks, Mary Oliver. I hope you will consider reading. Maybe You Should Talk to Someone to give you a little perspective. You know what they say, use it or lose it.

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Meet Alyson Novick, Director of Development at the Dr. Martin Luther King Community Center.